"The Bond"

"The Bond"

It is being said that Indian culture is the unique culture in this
world.

But what makes an Indian culture unique....? Daughters!

We the people of India are still unable to distinguish a daughter, she
plays a vital role in Indian culture.

What does a daughter mean?

On the birth of the girl child it’s the father who’s the happiest
person in the whole family & feels luckiest as much as the whole
family feels on the birth of a boy child.

It is also known that daughter’s are dear to their fathers & son’s to
their mothers. In daily life when father comes home from a hectic day
of work it is the daughter who observers tiredness on father’s face &
asks him “shall I give u head message” or “shall I press your head”,
such emotion is hardly been observed in case of son’s.

When such daughter get married & goes away from her own family with
whom she lived for 20 to 25yrs & get herself involved with the other
family from the very next day saying “this is my family”, such
daughter are worth of respect & honored.

However rich or poor the father might be he will make the best
possible arrangement for her daughter marriage & give her lots of love
in form of gifts, jewelries etc. From very start of making arrangement
for his daughter’s marriage to receiving guest, looking after them &
till the very last minute of marriage the father is the busiest person
around.

After the whole procedure of marriage there is a custom in Hindu known
as “Biddai” when a daughter meets her parents for the last time before
leaving her place, she meets each & every member of her family from
her near & dear uncle & aunty to her brother & mother but it is the
father to whom she meets at the very end because it is the father to
whom the daughters are really dear to & wants to spend few more
moments with him, wants to talk to him, wants to thank him for being
by side of her everything when she is pain etc.

But the son’s who are been given priority in Hindu family considering
they are strong but when it come to sacrifice it the daughters only
who can make the above things possible.

Hence it is the bond of father & daughter make the Indian culture a
really unique culture in the world.